Love the dance.

The thing about love is you really have no control over it, no matter how much you believe you do.  Love is in each cell of our body, it is what we are made of.  We take heartbreak personally and want to blame the other person for not loving us.  What we need to see is that no other person can love us in a way that we want or think we should be, that love has to come from ourselves, we must love who we are 100% before we can be allowed to receive love from any other person.  Sometimes things do not work out, but I believe that is the Universe redirecting us, showing us in signs or ways that there is something better, someone who is our other part.  We are programmed to believe so many untruths, where we live in this fairy tale state, only to be let down when we do not receive our happy ending.  If you ever quieted your mind, sat and listened to your heart and became awake to the signs that are given to each of us, you would then know.  You would find the answers you seek as they are in each one of us.  The people who are meant to stay, we teach them and they teach us, we heal them and they heal us.  It is like a dance, flowing with each step and sometimes when the dance is done, some go, because we learned all we could and that is when the  time comes for new dance to enter our lives.  Some dances come in and leave again, because we haven’t learned all that we were meant to, those are sometimes the most challenging dances to understand.  They are the ones that can deeply move us, question ourselves, wonder if we are worthy of ever understanding the steps.  I believe those dances are the most loving, even if they challenge us to the core, that is what they are meant to do.  Life is a dance, we are meant to flow, to learn, to heal, to fall down, and to get back up.  Whatever is meant to be for us, will be, we have no control over that and the sooner we surrender to this dance, the easier it is to flow.  The toughest part is to just Love Through all our dances, to be present in them, to honor them, to cherish them and to absolutely love them.   XO-Rach