Loving Through When Someone Doesn't See You

I have said many times in different ways, that as human beings, all we want is to be seen, heard, felt, and understood. This is so important in our daily relationships with the ones that we are closest to, who love and believe in us and knows us the best. But what happens when that shifts? When they no longer see who you are?

Sometimes this shift can take a while and other times it feels like you woke up and everything seems to have changed overnight. No matter how it happens, it is a feeling that can hurt us on a level that we may have never felt before.

There can be many reasons why someone may see us differently than they did before. Having other people’s influence can make this happen, but so can our energy, our vibration. We are all our moving at different speeds and have our journeys to walk. Healing and growing is a personal choice and many have a hard time with the process. The hardest part is when your vibrations no longer align, where they do not see you, and you may be losing sight of them. It can break your heart and depend on who the person is leave your world upside down. But there is hope, always.

These are the moments in life when we may have to reach farther down than we ever have had to, to find that strength, and to keep our faith alive. We can not judge someone for not seeing us anymore, for not remembering who we are, who we have always been. Instead, this is the time when we have to believe our journeys separate for a while, where each person must go off and learn other lessons and grow. This is love, self-love, and love for others.

In your soul, you know your paths will meet again and in that knowing there will be peace and the ability to keep moving forward on your journey. I believe this is the power of love, the ability to hold space for another, but to know they have to learn and grow without you…. XO-Rach