Loving Through- The Mirrors

I think one of the most challenging lessons has been showing love to others when you know they do not like you. We seem to take this so personally but the truth is it is not about us, it is about them.

What I have learned is when someone doesn’t like you it is because you have triggered something inside of them. It’s like holding a mirror up for them to see themselves and most of the time no one wants to see what is being shown. I am sure if you think about people in your life now or in the past you can see the ones who held a mirror up for you and you can see what you choose to do. This is not a bad thing at all, it is actually a really beautiful thing, a gift to heal something in us that we may or may not have known. The same thing is said for the ones we trigger, but what we must remember is we do not have the power to change anyone, all we can do is be loving and kind and hope they will see inside themselves what is being shown. It is not our load to carry, but it is our message to deliver in the most loving way.

I look at everyone as a lesson that we are meant to have in this life time. Some will love us, some will leave us, some will challenge us, but all of them will allow us to grow and evolve if we are willing to look in that mirror. The more we can see how we are all connected in one way or another and how each of us are here to learn and grow from each other, the more love and kindness we can bring to this world. No one is smarter, prettier, stronger, or anything else that is what we have been made to believe. Instead, believe we are all here to serve our purpose for this lifetime and we all have mirrors and messages to deliver. Be kind, loving and have empathy for others. XO-Rach