Loving Through Trust

The definition of trust in the dictionary is this: belief that someone or something is reliable, good, honest, effective, etc. No where does the definition mention anything about self, which is where trust must begin.

To have trust is believing that whatever is meant to be will be. Knowing we can not control anything or anyone, just ourselves and the way we respond and act. We have the choice to allow others that space without blaming them for their choices, if we feel hurt by someone that is a place we need to look at in ourselves. No one has the ability to make us feel a certain way, unless we give them that power.

Too often in relationships you hear how someone did something to break trust with the other, which often leads to the end of the relationship. What I honestly know in my own experience is this: If two unhealed people come together in a relationship and do not fix or heal what they need to, they will both pass all of their traumas and baggage unto each other. Thus, the blame game will start and no one stands a chance to heal and fix what needs to be.

Trust is not meant to hide us from hurt, betrayal, or any of those negative experiences, but if you are healed and healthy in your mind and soul, you will react and feel differently about anything that happens. Trust that the Universe, God, Angels, Guides, whoever it is you believe in is taking care of you. Trust that each experience you go through is meant to happen, good or not good, it is how we grow and evolve. Loving Through is facing your own shadows, not taking ownership of anyone else’s. It is learning to trust in yourself, knowing each step of your journey you are doing the best you can with what you know in each moment. Trusting in love and making loving choices, is a place that will never lead you astray, trust me :). XO-Rach